March 2022
Loss of community is an unfortunate effect of COVID. Nowhere is this more clearly evident than in high-rise condominium communities where activities and spaces are an extended part of the home. Virtually all activities were put on indefinite hold. No parties, celebrations, fitness centers or card playing. Even board and committee meetings were cancelled. Elevator restrictions make it difficult for many to leave their floor.
Now that the pandemic appears to be subsiding, in two steps forward and one step backward manner, how can we rebuild our communities? Many want to return to their pre-COVID lives.
High-rise condominium living is a personal lifestyle choice. Some desire the convenience. Others desire the social activities or access to common areas such as exercise room or swimming pool. COVID changed all this as everyone was told to stay home and avoid contact with others. Mask wearing and physical distancing were embraced, or at least enforced, for a period expected to last weeks but as of this month has now been two years. Many feel detached or cut off from their community. Some struggle with anxiety, depression, physical ailments from reduced activity, and shortened tempers.
Virtual technologies such as Zoom were found to be a poor replacement. Not everyone is comfortable conversing, socializing, exercising or exchanging ideas on a screen. The virtual approach is less enjoyable and has generally been abandoned.
The Path Forward
We are now at a crossroads. Some remain afraid to attend meetings, socialize or recommence activities. Many welcome the isolation and prefer not to go out. They distance themselves when walking, don’t speak with others and avoid sharing an elevator. Such individuals may prefer their heightened state of anxiety and personal isolation.
Many others want to get back to what they consider a normal life. They hate masks and physical distancing. Being with others is a relief even if it includes reasonable precautions.
While many are ready to get back to normal, that decision in a condominium community is up to the condo board. They control what common areas are accessible and rules for use. Some communities have embraced a return to normal while others act as if isolation is a new normal. Communities can facilitate a return to normal as they learn how many are comfortable with a reopening. Allow access to common areas so residents can utilize amenities and congregate. Residents will come out slowly as they become more comfortable. Those remaining uncomfortable will choose not to participate and continue to isolate.
Allow residents to share their experiences with isolation. Consider a newsletter or gathering where residents share experiences, and ask questions with local mental health professionals in attendance. Those who have struggled the most during COVID will benefit from a community that makes an effort to reach out to them.
